📚Marginalia

#️⃣Destiny

rewriting their teens

You couldn’t get hold of the things you’d done and turn them right again. Such a power might be given to the gods, but it was not given to women and men, and that was probably a good thing. Had it been otherwise, people would probably die of old age still trying to rewrite their teens.

total sum

We are the sum of all we have done added to the sum of all that has been done to us. there is no escaping that, not for any of us.

destiny doesn't do home visits

Destiny is usually around the corner. Like a thief, like a hooker, or a lottery vendor: its three most common personifications. But what destiny does not do is home visits. You have to go for it.

a preordained path

If we are simply walking a path preordained, then all the experiences that make us who we are - love, grief, joy, learning, changing - would count for nothing.

part of a larger plan

Sometimes things that seem unconnected are actually part of a larger plan. Not your plan, to be sure, but someone else’s plan.